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>where do you get that number?

These aren't novel numbers:

https://aibm.org/commentary/gen-zs-romance-gap-why-nearly-ha...

https://mynbc15.com/news/nation-world/reimagining-teenage-ro...

https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-yo...

The lonliness epidemic did not just stop at platonic relationships.

>What is your definition of "young men"?

I just use "Gen Z" as a moniker, so anyone from 1995 or 96 to 2010.

>how so?

Feel free to read the links, but various factors include

- less physical interaction in lieu of social media, even among school mates

- The consolidation of the dating scene to apps, which has their own story of dark patterns

- Women are still more likely to "date up", so there's less women in the same poll as younger men

- Some are simply sexually satisfied by porn and aren't really trying to actively date due to the above factors

- higher senses of anxiety from approaching compared to older generations

- Finances. no money, harder to make a good first impression. So some don't try

It's a multi-faceted issue.



Note that part of your factors (1, 2, 4, 6) you mention don't fall in the "can't" category but more in the "don't care / don't even try" category.




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